tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post4348579314668227788..comments2023-11-05T01:35:46.416-07:00Comments on The Psychiatrist Blog: Can Fame be Bad for You?Dr Michelle Tempesthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09318876662760890328noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-6118550021045016972008-04-17T15:42:00.000-07:002008-04-17T15:42:00.000-07:00One of these days I'm going to be famous and parti...One of these days I'm going to be famous and participate in a psychological test ..<BR/><BR/>(But I think fame is overrated)Wael Eskandarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17685842195441037505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-29590189572701432962007-04-13T04:07:00.000-07:002007-04-13T04:07:00.000-07:00Thanks Sarah and David.Crushed by Ingsoc - I'm sur...Thanks Sarah and David.<BR/>Crushed by Ingsoc - I'm sure there are so many studies still to be done on the impacts of fame, but modern fame is different to historical fame.<BR/>Ellee - I shall watch out for your son as a rising star.<BR/>Dr Andrew Brown - GP's are always famous in their locality, and at dinner parties the conversations seem to centre round asking the GP's about ailments!<BR/>Thanks Jumping in Puddles and Ian.<BR/>Big Brother - indeed!<BR/>Chrysalis Angel - thanks<BR/>Simon - I'm glad to hear that your friend has good support from friends such as yourself.<BR/><BR/>Thanks to you all - I think the celebrity fame debate is here to stay.Dr Michelle Tempesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09318876662760890328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-44415014521040949312007-04-11T13:05:00.000-07:002007-04-11T13:05:00.000-07:00how about for famous bloggers?- you had better wat...how about for famous bloggers?- you had better watch out...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-50518408368366460252007-04-11T07:56:00.000-07:002007-04-11T07:56:00.000-07:00Being far from famous, but being recognizable beca...Being far from famous, but being recognizable because my photo runs with my column and for freelance pieces I write for a couple of newspapers, I find that members of the public believe they have a right to intrude on my privacy.That can be disconcerting, so I can understand the psychological toll that is taken on the highly recognizable. I guess the survivors are those who take pains to deal with it.<BR/>I once was sitting in a pub in Exeter and realized that the man sharing my table was the actor Leslie Phillips. I looked across at him. His eye caught mine and he responded thusly: "Yes, I am. There, now that's out of the way." Struck me as a healthy response. I acknowledged with a nod.<BR/><BR/>IanIan Lidsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14106994463366766471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-78715002132771671572007-04-11T04:13:00.000-07:002007-04-11T04:13:00.000-07:00Good post on this Michelle. Dr. Brown has the rig...Good post on this Michelle. Dr. Brown has the right idea.<BR/><BR/>That's just a rain drop in the Ocean that is theirs. Just to do something you love to do, as employment. Following your passion and getting paid for it.<BR/><BR/>We don't have people with listening devices and cameras shooting pictures through a crack in the blinds. <BR/><BR/>Fame certainly isn't for the faint hearted. The ones that are shy, and there are many who really are shy, but love what they do when they perform, it is a hard thing to grasp why so many people find them that interesting. How can you wrap your brain around that? Best to you.Chrysalis https://www.blogger.com/profile/00757696627388704079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-24691826290060772742007-04-10T16:35:00.000-07:002007-04-10T16:35:00.000-07:00Oops sorry Jumping.. you asked if Michelle go's t...Oops sorry Jumping.. you asked if Michelle go's to other non medical blogs! well, the answer is yes!<BR/><BR/>Mis-read your question sorrysimonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17329985554257923069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-87937556043064212552007-04-10T16:32:00.000-07:002007-04-10T16:32:00.000-07:00your last line... "Excessive attention when young....your last line... "Excessive attention when young.."<BR/><BR/>I was researching about "self harmers" (I have a friend who was/is).. rather than over react I thought I would take a good long look at it...<BR/><BR/>I thought immediatly that it was as a result of physical abuse, but i learned that it can be as a result of exessive attention when young ie emotional abuse, over expectation to perform. My friend is a beautiful dancer and artist, and I learned that her parents had SUCH high expectations.....about her performance...she receives therapy now and makes good progress...<BR/>( from my perspective I learned simply to remain calm and not over react if she had a "moment")<BR/><BR/>Jumping puddles:- yes fame is relative...that's why ( for example) the trigger for a self harmer may not be the same "pressure" as that for another.<BR/><BR/>Do I make sense.?<BR/><BR/>Michelle, let me know if what I am saying is "drivel" I am NO expert.<BR/><BR/>BTW jumpingpuddles:- I am not a doctor at all (I note you comment in a previous post) :o)<BR/><BR/>I just enjoy politics, and a good debate, as well as learning something new.simonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17329985554257923069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-57669838849308610792007-04-10T14:23:00.000-07:002007-04-10T14:23:00.000-07:00I'm glad I'm just an old fashioned teacher. I'd cr...I'm glad I'm just an old fashioned teacher. I'd cringe at having all the attention all of the time. Mind you, often celebrities will, while screaming load and clear that they want privacy, drop hints to the paparazzi about their upcoming nuptials, divorce, drug rehabilitation etc. Who said that bad publicity is better than no publicity?Big Brotherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08309464919532916689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-80535168412786651822007-04-10T14:19:00.000-07:002007-04-10T14:19:00.000-07:00isnt fame relative though:P You know what when pe...isnt fame relative though:P You know what when people walk into a crowded room people do take a peek famous or not, we live in a small country town everyone is famous here, lol more from rumour rather than actual fact. Fame is relative.jumpinginpuddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701383598841540578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-74947009222127397672007-04-10T13:56:00.000-07:002007-04-10T13:56:00.000-07:00Yeah, everybody wants to be famous when they're yo...Yeah, everybody wants to be famous when they're young. I certainly did. I've twigged since then that fame isn't all it's cracked up to be. As a GP you may become half-famous in your locality. I often see people staring at me in the supermarket, obviously trying to work out where they've seen me before. It means I can't pick my nose or argue with the wife in public.<BR/><BR/>One of my offspring is currently trying quite hard to become a popular singer. Although parents traditionally want their children to succeed, I do wonder whether it would be a good thing in this case.Dr Andrew Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13858213625632400403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-68972603296984511972007-04-10T11:47:00.000-07:002007-04-10T11:47:00.000-07:00Michelle, Thanks for the warning, I will have to k...Michelle, Thanks for the warning, I will have to keep a careful watch on my young son, he is due to be on East Enders any day soon as an extra, he belongs to a top drama group in Cambridge and even has an agent.<BR/><BR/>I'm lucky that he is very grounded, he hates it when I do the proud mum bit.<BR/><BR/>I think a lot of famous people wish they could live ordinary lives in some way again, to be anonymous if they are pursued by the press constantly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-64574905184757750542007-04-10T11:04:00.000-07:002007-04-10T11:04:00.000-07:00Interesting slant for you, Michelle.Becming famous...Interesting slant for you, Michelle.<BR/>Becming famous, yes, good evidence to support that.<BR/>But what bout those born to it?<BR/>Looking to history we have thousans of years of very good character studies of hundreds- thousands of individuls born famous- and born to power.<BR/>Louis XIV is always one charcter I have always found fascinating.There is so much materiel on him and he s more than just an ordinary king during his reign. Worth a psychologicl study perhaps?<BR/>Except I have always seen The Man in the Iron Mask as Dumas' attempt to do exactly that...Crushedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02479751225625007588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-56516684470611749132007-04-10T10:51:00.000-07:002007-04-10T10:51:00.000-07:00And it must be twice as difficult to cope with if ...And it must be twice as difficult to cope with if the spotlight of 'fame' is thrust upon people through no choice of their own ... as recent events have shown.David Anthonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08240242801763405583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36128386.post-14046636703160261122007-04-10T10:47:00.000-07:002007-04-10T10:47:00.000-07:00Just as well then that I'm not famous. SarahJust as well then that I'm not famous. SarahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com